Do you ever wonder about the nature-system, and do tadabbur (keenly observe) about:
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How God put everything and every person in the most perfect position, He defined for each of them the most perfect responsibilities, which btw if followed and obeyed as is, leads to a perfect society.
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Like a simple relation of husband and wife.
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The man is made the Qawwam (like stated in Quran) here, meaning he is responsible to fulfil all the needs of his wife and children and by all I mean literally all!
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On the other hand the woman is simply not designed/created to work 9 to 5, rather she has given the wisdom and mind to protect his man’s house and children and train her children so well that this beautiful chain and proper set of responsibilities go on to the later generations.
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This theory might sound obsolete or out-dated to most of the people especially the women who are working and especially the ones who are working as well as watching their houses.
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Islam never forbade a women to work, but to be honest tell me what provides more protection, care and royalty to the Women?
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Working for a total someone-else those 8 hours crushing your bones neglecting your health and benefiting someone else’s business with your skills
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Or rather staying home where you don’t have to deal with those stranger’s looks (which actually sucks), stay in cared, protected, respectful environment working to shape futures of your own children, working for people whom you love most need most and loved by most (your husband and children).
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If a woman accepts the responsibilities she is given and let go the extra burden she would realise that,
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Islam literally requires the man to treat her woman like a Queen, nothing less. Period.
Sash Says 